Update instance ports from the CLI

[callen-bot]

Summary

• add brev ports update <instance-or-node> with an edit alias
• select a mapping interactively or target its stable port_id with --id
• update destination ports and source CIDRs, including clearing restrictions with --allow-anywhere
• update HTTP origin protocol and public/authorized access policy
• support managed instances and registered nodes with human-readable or JSON output

Why

The UI performs these mutations in place. Modeling update as close plus open would introduce downtime and could change the mapping ID, endpoint, or allocated public port.

Impact

Users and automation can change all port fields exposed by the UI while preserving the existing mapping identity and public endpoint. Multiple field groups use the API’s separate mutation RPCs in documented order and are not transactional.

Stack

• Add ports command for instances and nodes #441: read/list operations
• Create instance ports from the CLI #442: create/open operations
• Close instance ports from the CLI #446: delete/close operations
• This PR: update/edit operations

Validation

• go test -race ./pkg/cmd/ports ./pkg/cmd/util ./pkg/cmd
• make fmtcheck
• make vet
• make lint
• make fast-build