[To dev/1.3] Pipe: Handle transient resource failures locally (#18381)

[Caideyipi]

Summary

• Backport Pipe: Handle transient resource failures locally #18381 to dev/1.3.
• Handle transient sink resource failures locally and stop pipes based on recent failure thresholds.
• Aggregate recent memory and disk failures through pipe heartbeats and expose them in tree-model SHOW PIPES.
• Adapt the change to dev/1.3 APIs while preserving the upstream Thrift field IDs 6, 11, and 19 for compatibility.

Testing

• mvn -o -nsu -Ddevelocity.off=true -Dtest=PipeRecentFailureCounterTest,PipeStopStrategyTest,PipeTemporaryMetaTest -pl iotdb-core/node-commons test
• mvn -o -nsu -Ddevelocity.off=true -Dtest=PipeTableRespTest,PipeHeartbeatParserTest -pl iotdb-core/confignode test
• mvn -o -nsu -Ddevelocity.off=true -Dtest=PipeSinkSubtaskTest,ShowPipeTaskTest -pl iotdb-core/datanode test
• mvn -o -nsu -Ddevelocity.off=true -pl iotdb-core/node-commons,iotdb-core/datanode,iotdb-core/confignode spotless:apply
• git diff --check